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I am Kelsey

I’m navigating a new journey with new scars, recalling memories once forgotten, & moving forward from a former safe haven.

Ocean and sand

Me in a Blog Nutshell

Millenial Mom. Not your typical widow. Chauffer, Stylist and Chef to a beautiful and sassy kindergartner, who reminds me to call my dad and apologize for being the exact same way in 1992. Navigating anxiety, therapy, kindergarten, dating and self care by putting one foot in front of the other, and a good skin care routine. Read all about what inspires me to write. I hope I make you laugh, I may make you cry, … I just hope it gives you a different perspective.

Latest Blog:

7.8.25 Remind Yourself Who The F*ck You Are

https://you-can-do-hard-things.com/2025/07/09/remind-yourself-who-the-fck-you-are/

4.4.25 Could you be ANY cuter?

https://you-can-do-hard-things.com/2025/04/04/could-you-be-any-cuter/

3.6.25

https://you-can-do-hard-things.com/2025/03/06/letting-a-good-thing-go/

2.6.25 Down to the Core

https://you-can-do-hard-things.com/2025/02/06/down-to-the-core/

2.3.25 The Notebook I Didn’t Know I Needed
https://you-can-do-hard-things.com/2025/02/03/the-notebook-i-didnt-know-i-needed/

12.6.24 A Love Song for My Mother

https://you-can-do-hard-things.com/2024/12/06/a-love-song-to-my-mother/

11.16.24 Buckle Up Folks, it’s glowing to Be a Bumpy Ride

https://you-can-do-hard-things.com/2024/11/16/buckle-up-folks-its-going-to-be-a-bumpy-ride/

11.8.24 The Box in the Back of the Closet

https://you-can-do-hard-things.com/2024/11/08/the-box-in-the-back-of-the-closet/

11.4.24 My Grandma is a Ghost

https://you-can-do-hard-things.com/2024/11/05/my-grandma-is-a-ghost/

Sand and ocean

Writing

Writing has always been my creative outlet. Put me on the spot in person and I cannot come up with speaking the words needed, but give me a keyboard and I’ll pour my heart out. I’ve always been a hopeless romantic, so on my bucket list is to write a book or a movie screenplay. Romance, of course. Real cheesy stuff.

Words have meaning, but emotions make them stronger.

Clear water at the beach

Be Kind and Love

I live by the words “Be Kind”.

My goal in life is just to raise a kind human. Some days, I’m killing it. Some days, (takes a deep breath) it’s like watching a mini-me from 1992 (reminder: call my dad).

Just show love towards one another and tell that person that you love them.

We’ve come here with nothing, take it with us the day we leave. The first and last breath don’t matter, it’s all the ones that are in between.

-Sugarland

“And remember, my sentimental friend, that a heart is not judged by how much you love but by how much you are loved by others.”

-The Wizard, The Wizard of Oz

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